Posts Tagged ‘Family’

24
Jul

Just Us

   Posted by: Mikko    in The Farm

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Today I spent the entire day down at the main garden. Truly a gift since that hasn’t happened since we first planted.

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This is my Dad.  He is the Keeper of the Garden.  When I was a kid, Dad would come home from work, change out of his shirt and tie and head straight out into the garden.  I remember him begging us to help him pull weeds and haul water.  I hated it.  I didn’t care if the peas came directly out of the garden minutes before dinner.  To me, it just meant that I had to shell them… another chore.

It wasn’t until years later, living in Brooklyn and trying to feed my own child really good food, that I finally ‘got it’.  I wanted to make sure that our food wasn’t filled with toxins, and I missed the taste of a perfectly ripe, homegrown tomato.

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So, I started a garden on my fire escape in Brooklyn.  First I started with herbs, then I moved on to tomato plants.  But growing a garden on a fire escape, while relatively pest free, still has it’s challenges.  The tomato plants started to perish, the bottom leaves were yellowing and getting spots.  I panicked and spent way too much time online researching tomato diseases.  I learned about the tobacco virus and late season blight and a host of others.  In the end, the answer was just that the confined space didn’t allow for good air circulation.  The plants, without the breathing room of wide open spaces, wilted and died.

I began to feel like those tomato plants.  There wasn’t enough breathing room for me in Brooklyn and I needed to grow things where there was… back home.  The very same place that I had felt was suffocating me over 10 years earlier, and left.  The next summer I started traveling upstate on the weekends just to care for a few tomato plants.  It wasn’t long before we were moving back home and building the farm.

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My Dad had stopped gardening sometime around my teen years.  Life’s responsibilities began to push away the time and attention that he was able to give to his passion.  And, outside of my Dad, no one really cared about the gardens anymore.  It wasn’t long before the fields went fallow and the produce was all store bought.

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Today I spent the day with my Dad.  We laughed while we watched my children spend the afternoon building a Fairy Mermaid Scarecrow with their aunt and cousin.  He proudly showed me the plastic bin of socks that he’d stolen out of Mom’s laundry room to use to tie up tomato plants. He gave me the tour through the plants pointing out the failures as well as the proud successes.  We came to the tomato plants, and there were the same yellowing spotted branches at the bottom that I had encountered on my fire escape.

“What do you think?,” he asks me, putting my authority above his own. ” I read about this tomato blight in the newspaper… but I don’t think that’s it.  I think it is just too wet, not enough sun and air circulation.”

“Yeah Dad.  I think you might be right.”

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Thanks Dad.

UPDATE:

Despite the intense amounts of rain (yes, it is raining right now… again… ) the plants all seem to be doing well.  Everything should be about 50% bigger, but we’ll take what we can get.  Let’s just pray for a late frost at this point.

The ‘above ground pond’ is leaking.  Brian and I called an emergency Koi pond planning meeting.  This means that I go out and pull up a handful of fresh herbs from the garden and he mixes them into a cocktail.  We sip our creation and wait for inspiration.  Of course, it came… right between sips of our pineapple sage, spearmint vodka lemonade.  Thinking about taking the old water tanks in the basement and turning them into a pond/fountain.  Luckily it is raining again (Luckily? Did I just say that?) and the pond can’t possibly empty out faster than it is getting filled.  Hey look!  There’s that silver lining!

Finally, this is the last task that Dad and I did in the garden today:

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Time to go make pickles!  Night!

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21
Jun

The Garden Chronicles

   Posted by: Mikko    in Gardening

It is raining, raining, raining. A good time to chronicle the birth of the gardens for this year.

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Last year, all produce was grown at my parent’s house where the main gardens are kept. Great space, water access, etc., however this also meant that every time I wanted to make a salad I had to drive a mile down the road to stock up. So, this year the plan is to maintain main gardens at 1219 (the folks’ pad) for canning, freezing, possibly even selling, but each sibling house starts their own house garden.

On May 2nd, thanks to the sweat and labor of Annie, Joe, LJ, Brian, myself and even Parker… the raised bed gardens of 1605 were born.

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We began the work of transforming this:

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To this:

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This involved cutting, laying out and affixing landscaping fabric to the bottom of the bed, cutting and wiring the cedar pieces together, then filling with compost, topsoil and finally mulch. Let’s just say that our out-of-shape early spring limbs were quite sore.

The following weekend, we were off to the farmer’s market to start buying the plants. First to go in, the herbs.

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I had to take the girls to a birthday party, so Brian coaxed Mom and Dad into helping him plant the herbs. Later, mom apologized for taking the pleasure of planting the herbs away from me. Clearly she was unaware of just how much was going to have to be planted.

Now remember, this is the northeast. Even though we’d had temperatures in the lower 90’s the last week of April, and the National Weather Service had declared the last frost date as no longer valid, Mother Nature had other plans.

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On 5/19, evening temperatures dropped to 33 degrees. We covered everything with tarps, sheets and buckets and thanked the heavens that we hadn’t started planting the tomatoes. Everything survived. Friends who own a farm in Berne were not so lucky and ended up replanting entire vegetable gardens.

With the last frost out of the way (hopefully) it was time to return to the farmer’s market for the big buy. This is where we purchase flats of seedlings to start the main vegetable gardens as well as our house gardens.

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Oh, that’s right, we ALL go to the market. Even the 93 year old grandmother (check the sweet ride wheelchair) wants to get her say in on what will be planted this year. My sister watches the girls while breastfeeding the baby, and my mother peruses the perennials and flowers. I bark out orders from the list while the boys march about hunting down the best flats and my dad wanders around trying to sneak in extra plants that he wants but hasn’t told anyone.

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Perhaps now would be the appropriate time to point out that we’re part Italian.

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After the big acquisition, it is all hands on deck to plant, plant, plant. What’s that? You have to breast feed your baby? Slap on that sling and suit up Holly Hobby, we’re going Amish.

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We didn’t get it all in before the rains came. We never do. Sometimes we end up planting in the rain and sometimes we have flats of stuff just waiting for some direction in their life, wanting to grow but not knowing what path to take. Reminds me of some of my relatives.

Attention ends up switching to water: the preservation and the importance.

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After collecting water (for the chickens and the gardens) in three 32 gallon rain barrels, Brian bumped up our system to catch into a 100 gallon watering trough, which overflows into another 100 gallon watering trough, which flows into several containers. Let’s not forget the trash barrels that we still catch water in. All are filled with goldfish and now, our latest pet, a Koi. With all of this water you would think that we’d be able to catch up on laundry and dishes during our dry spells… but we can’t. Don’t think I haven’t thought about bathing with the Koi when our well gets low.

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In between planting, we put up our high tech pest deterrent systems: pinwheels and string fences with pie plates and blowing plastic garbage bags. And we had some fun…

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This is one of my estate sale pillowcases that was too worn to be of any indoor use, so I’ve turned it into a manure tea bag. I fill it with chicken manure, soak it overnight in one of the garbage cans of water and voila! Manure tea!

I owe a whole post about my chickens. For now, I’ll just regale you with their ability to poop something that is tea-riffic and the incredible amount of dust that they kick up. We raise our littles on the back porch in a brood box. When they are tiny yellow peepers, they don’t contribute too much air pollution. However, leave them until they get all their feathers and… well… one day you wake up and a room of your house is suffocating under a straw yellow haze.

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It took 6 hours of pulling every single thing off of my porch, washing it down, sorting through it and then putting it back.

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You would think that after the third hour of hauling my crap back and forth that I would take the hint and start purging my world of material goods.

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Nope. It was a call to hit another estate sale.

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While Brian was building up the chicken pens to include the Easter flock and a grand aviary for HeyZeus, there was one particular casualty: a hen that got stuck under foot and perished. So, we did what any good farm would do. We called some friends and had a chicken BBQ.

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Now that we’d settled into the rainy season, we needed something to keep our mind off of the drowning tomato plants. If you haven’t figured out by now, we love to live by the motto, “If a little is good, then more should be mandatory.” So, with weeks of storms riding in on the horizon, Brian cooked up a new catchwater scheme.

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Yes, that is my husband hammering into his private stock, if you will.

SOLSTICE UPDATE

Today is the Summer Solstice, as well as Father’s Day. We have spent the day eating and ignoring the gardens, the chickens, and unfortunately the dogs who, incidentally, ate an entire pizza when no one was looking.

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The gardens about the farm continue to upkeep the idea that we are not exactly in control. Check out these plants lined up OUTSIDE of the garden’s wall…

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We have sunflowers growing up all over the yard, thanks to the sloppy chipmunks and squirrels. I liken them to the sparkly fairy stickers that have appeared on the clothes dryer or the tropical fish stickers that are now permanent fixtures on the bathroom countertop. Wasn’t exactly something I wanted to happen, but now that they are there, they offer surprising beauty and have become my favorite parts about my living space.

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The gardens are not exactly flourishing in the ways that I would like, but alternatively exploding in other areas that make me proud. A bunch of my stuff has taken a turn towards Yellow Town and are not growing but surviving. I suspect a lack of nutrients in my soil and a lack of sun in the sky. I have fertilized and now cross my fingers and hold my breath.

My seedbed is a runaway train of arugula. After I planted all of my seeds in a very well planned and orderly fashion, I failed to cover the area with straw. A nice steady, hard rain was kind enough to wash my seeds into another planting plan of Mother Nature’s liking.

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Lately I’ve been weighing whether or not I want to start selling stuff at a farmer’s market, or dig out the farm stand. Neither idea really appeals to me as I would have to spend hours on set-up, labeling and even standing post. I’m not exactly sure how to manage my 2 little kids and find time to stand around for hours on a Saturday. I can barely update my blog, which I know connects me to all of the friends of The Accidental Farm.

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So, I end up batting the ideas back and forth, usually at 4AM, and hope that some solution comes walking down my driveway. Fear of failure is an painful thing, but fear of success is downright paralyzing.

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Like everything else on the farm, I know that, at some point, we’ll just hold our noses and jump in with both feet. This is how we ended up with our beautiful best friend of a dog, how we ran away to Ireland once upon a time and why we now have 2 children. Don’t think about it. Thinking is the death of every great idea.

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Don’t wait for the clouds to pass because you can never guarantee what is on the other side.

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14
May

Our First Spring Calf

   Posted by: Mikko    in The Farm

So I owe y’all the story of my nephew, Rowan Padgett Von Rody (aka. Henry). It is a story of perseverance. It is a story of surrender. It is a story of pain and of absolute joy. It is truly a farm story.

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Rowan started his journey into this world on April 12th, Easter Sunday. By midnight, I was sitting in my sister’s house, filling a pool and waiting to help bring a baby into the world without a hospital or doctors or anything that I was familiar with. I was terrified. My sister and brother-in-law, however, were excited and ready for her journey… at least, that is what they thought.

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Shannon labored throughout the night only to watch the sun rise and the timing of her contractions fall. No baby was to be born on the 2nd day of Easter in this family. Contractions continued, goggles were donned and kick ass music was turned on.

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In my and my sister’s absence, Krista (our sister) took on the care of our children. As you can see, the littles got their naps…

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With the contractions coming too far apart to do any real work (but still intense enough to knock the wind out of Shannon), it was time to turn up the heat. It was time to walk the hills.

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After a vigorous walk with the kids and a little fairy magic from Willow, Shannon went back into her birthing chamber to await the inevitable onset of more pain, more waiting and more exhaustion.

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This is the birthing pool. It is a rented framework that comes with plastic lining and you have to purchase a second liner that is yours for sanitary purposes. It holds approximately 150 gallons of water and takes 2 hours to fill with a hose from the tap since they had to wait for the hot water to replenish in 15 minute intervals. It can only have water in it for 24 hours, then must be drained, wiped down, and then refilled if used again.

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If not for the pool, Shannon would not have been able to withstand the intensity of her contractions. The cruel irony is that getting in the pool slowed down the contractions.

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We drained and filled the tub, during Shannon’s labor, four times. Yes, Shannon was in labor for four days. This picture was taken on Day 3.

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On Wednesday night, Shannon’s midwives, Heidi and Jennifer (two true saints and magical women) decided that even though Shannon’s body was fully dilated and ready for the birth, the baby needed to turn.

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Herbal remedies, acupressure, acupuncture, homeopathy, prayers… thousands of years of wisdom that have somehow slipped into the shadows of mainstream birth practices. It is in our nature, our instinct and woven into the fiber of our souls how to give birth, how to nurture and grow. Factory farms, scheduled c-sections … when and, more importantly, how did we forget?

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By 1 AM on April 16th, it was decided that Shannon’s body was too exhausted to sleep and too exhausted to relax enough to let the baby turn. She rode into the hospital with Rowdy, Heidi and Jennifer to get an epidural and a bed to get some sleep in. I lay down to sleep in her bed; nervous, anxious and exhausted.

Shannon’s first birth (Willow) ended after 4 days of labor in a cesarean section. The second birth was planned as a natural home birth. Because she had originally had a c-section, this made for a very high risk situation since extreme pressure was being placed on the uterine scar from the first surgery. Most hospitals will not even let woman attempt a vaginal birth after a c-section (known as a VBAC). In order to attempt this, Shannon had to sign hospital documents prior to the birth stating she was aware of the risks.

Once in the hospital (which took a bit since they were pulled over by a cop on the way. Of course… The Accidental Farm!) Shannon got the epidural and finally slept. After 2 1/2 hours of sleep, she was put in a smidge of pitocin (to increase the contractions) and around noon, she finally, finally, FINALLY started to push.

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Standing by were The Original Four (me, Rowdy, Heidi and Jen), Michelle the hospital midwife and a battery of nurses. After 2 hours of pushing (and a very calm and determined Shannon) a doctor came in and announced that there would be no more pushing. The hospital had made a decision and Shannon was going into surgery.

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I took this picture while the doctor was telling Shannon that it didn’t matter what her body wanted, it was the hospital’s right to order a cesarean section. Can you feel the energy of the room at this very moment? I will never forget the feeling of helplessness that we all felt, as one, in that instant. And I will never forget the beam of determination and bravery that came from my sister, in that instant.

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After being guided by the midwives to understand that, despite the hospital’s inappropriate approach to communicate her need for a c-section, it was in fact the only option left. The baby had turned, but was now face up making it extremely difficult to birth naturally.

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We promised to save her the last Boston cream donut as a prize for having actually gone through three births, instead of one.
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My heroine.

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Rowan Padgett Von Rody was born at 3 PM (ish) on April 16th, 2009. He was 8 pounds and 8 ounces. Shannon said that when they opened her up, he was face up and staring straight at them… eyes wide open.

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Willow loves “her baby”, especially when he’s sleeping and she can ambush him with all of her love at once.

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Quite the ride, right? But then when is birth ever routine and run-of-the-mill?

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